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Introducing the ‘Ocean View’ Trend That Can Help Couples Fight Better

Any time I’m near the ocean , I feel a sense of relief like a breath of fresh air. Admiring its vastness helps my own problems feel small and insignificant. This phenomenon can actually help us better navigate conflicts in our intimate relationships. Dating experts label it the “ocean view.” What Is an ‘Ocean View’ In Relationships?  According to Dr. Eli Kraiem , a clinical psychologist and professor at Ferkauf Graduate School of Psychology, the “ocean view” in relationships describes “the ability to zoom out from the immediate conflict ensuing and see the relationship at large.” “When couples are disappointed in one another, their perspective often narrows [to] where the point of contention, such as the forgotten text, critical comment, or disagreement, can feel like evidence of a much larger problem,” Dr. Kraiem says. “When we take the ocean view, we are remembering the broader context of the relationship. This means reflecting on the history that the couple shares t...

What July’s New Moon in Cancer Means for Your Zodiac Sign, According to an Astrologer

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On July 14, in the midst of a chaotic and emotional Mercury Retrograde , we will be experiencing a powerful new moon in Cancer. According to astrologers, this lunation offers an opportunity to set intentions and release strong emotions, especially regarding our closest relationships and personal roots. The new moon will take place at 5:43 a.m. EST, but we might feel its effects for a few days before and after. Additionally, some zodiac signs and placements will experience it more intensely than others. Wondering what’s in store for you? Let’s dive in. What to Expect From the New Moon in Cancer The new moon in Cancer might trigger some heightened emotions, but it might also bring a sense of comfort and support. Remember: this isn’t a bad thing. Rather, it’s an opportunity to process and move through unresolved or complex feelings, so you can finally move forward with peace of mind. “The moon is at home in the sign of Cancer, so there will be no difficulties feel...

4 Signs You Might Have Relationship OCD (And How to Manage It)

OCD is one of the most debilitating anxiety disorders out there, and one I’ve struggled with since I was a little kid. As I’ve grown into adulthood, my OCD has evolved right along with me. Perhaps the most difficult theme I’ve struggled with is relationship-OCD (ROCD), which has caused me to doubt and obsess over my romantic relationships. At my worst, I’ve spent hours ruminating about whether I actually loved my partner (and vice versa) and whether we were compatible, searching for signs and reassurance that I was making the right choice. This was a common occurrence in all of my relationships, regardless of who I was dating. It was never about the actual person or our connection. Rather, it was about my own discomfort with complete certainty. While some doubt is common in dating, ROCD takes it to the next level, stripping you of the security you might typically feel in a romantic connection. No matter how healthy or fitting a relationship might be, OCD can find a way to sab...

Daily Horoscope: July 10, 2026

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Some days feel like trying to put words to something that keeps slipping. You know what you mean, and you’ve known for a while, but the language for it keeps sliding just out of reach, and so the feeling stays interior, unvoiced, accumulating weight. The Moon moves into Gemini today and starts doing something about that, stargazer. Mercury has begun its approach to the Sun, and something that’s been circling without a name all week is finally taking shape. There’s a window opening: not wide open, not finished, just cracked enough to let air through. Say what’s been close. Ask what you’ve been circling. The right sentence has been waiting. Read your horoscope for the week , and see what the stars have in store for your sign today.  Aries: March 21 – April 19 You usually know what you want before anyone asks — that’s the whole thing, the speed, the certainty, the go. Today, the signal is coming in differently. Neptune is sitt...

Pokémon Winds and Waves Leak Hints at Bad News for Eevee Evolutions

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A new Pokémon Winds and Waves leak has hinted at disappointing news for Eevee fans. If true, Gen 10 will not feature a new Eevee Evolution, despite it being 13 years since the franchise last added a new Eeveelution. Pokémon Winds and Waves Leak Has Disappointing Eevee Evolution News Screenshot: The Pokémon Company A major Pokémon Winds and Waves leak has just surfaced online , revealing many new details about the 2027 titles. Unfortunately for Eevee fans, the leaker also shared a potentially disappointing update about Gen 10 Eevee evolutions. According to the insider, Pokémon Winds and Waves currently does not appear to feature any new Eeveelutions . This latest rumor comes from an account that goes by Kurwa, who has been leaking details about Gen 10 over the past month. It was actually this insider that recently leaked that Pokémon Winds and Waves will feature 300 new Pokémon . However, according to his latest posts, it appears that a new Eevee evolution is not on...

The Focus V Aeris Is a Big Dab Pen That Hits Like It Has Something to Prove

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I like a portable dab device in theory. Concentrates are already enough of a commitment without needing a torch, banger, carb cap, terp pearls, cotton swabs, and a surface area that looks like you’re about to perform precision surgery on a gram of rosin. A good dab pen should make the whole thing easier. The problem is that some dab pens make concentrates taste like shit. Tiny chambers, burnt flavor, weak vapor, awkward mouthpieces, constant clogging. You start with beautiful rosin and somehow end up inhaling hot regret. The Focus V Aeris is not that kind of dab pen. But it’s also not exactly the cute, sleek, discreet little pen I usually picture when someone says “dab pen.” The Aeris is thicker, heavier, and more obvious (dare I say phallic?) than I expected. It’s definitely bulkier than what I personally want a dab pen to be. But once you stop judging it for looking like a monster vibrator and start using it, the thing works well. The Aeris ...

Womanizer’s New Sex Toy Combines Its Two Best-Selling Clit Suckers Into One Travel-Ready Toy

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According to a recent study by the pleasure brand Womanizer , only 1 in 4 single women are actively dating. Women who quit dating cited that dating is harder now than it was a few years ago. Yet, “55.6% of single women are satisfied with their sex lives,” Womanizer shared. It seems like women have dating fatigue, and instead of prioritizing inconsistent lovers, they’ve opted for thrilling sex lives where they have fewer complaints. If you’re feeling seen by those statistics, Womanizer has decided to elevate their line of clit suction toys just for you. The result? A new sex toy that merges their best-sellers into one: The  Womanizer Next Liberty. If you’re new to  Womanizer, they’re the brand behind clit sucking sex toys that mimic oral sex. Over the years, they’ve been perfecting their oral technique with two sex toys dominating discussions across Reddit and every review section: Womanizer Next and Womanizer Liberty. Next is the quiet...