What Is a ‘White Kiss’? The Viral Sex Trend That’s All About Intimacy, Disgust, and Comfort.
Surprise, surprise. There’s a new name for kissing your partner immediately after oral sex, and the internet has decided it’s a green flag. A “white kiss”—defined as kissing with no cleanup in between, bodily fluids included—has been circulating online as a marker of sexual confidence and mutual respect. The consensus among people who are into it seems to land somewhere around: if you’re comfortable enough to go down on someone, backing away from a kiss afterward sends a message you probably don’t intend. The psychology behind why some people love it, and others recoil, is more interesting than the act itself. Research published in PLOS ONE found a bidirectional relationship between sexual arousal and disgust toward bodily fluids —meaning arousal actively suppresses the disgust response, and that suppression is stronger in people who have lower disgust sensitivity to begin with. For people on the higher end of that sensitivity scale, the disg...